Real Social Dynamics - Transformations (2007) [13 MP4, 36 MP3, 2 PDF]
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Your Own Personal Odyssey Of Mastery With Women And Mastery Over The Self. The first thing you have to "get" about what's being offered in "Transformations" is this.
This Is Your Journey.
Reaching a level where you've got insane, over-the-top massive "Success With Women" (as in the type of choice and options with women where it's never something you have to remotely think about ever again) isn't just about learning "techniques" or even "confidence" and "inner game". Nope. Success with women is really about the "Journey".
See, when you learn about techniques and confidence and all of those very "key" concepts, there's still the "most important issue of them all" which is called CONGRUENCE. What "congruence" means is that you're talking to a girl, she's judging you on a million little micro-levels to see if everything about you "lines up".
That means that she's looking unconsciously (but extremely carefully) at the things you choose to say, the ways you say them, your body language, your eye contact, and even the subtle tonalities in your voice to make sure that it all "comes together" to make what you could think about as being like the perfect "assembled puzzle".
If you're 100% "congruent" then the vast majority of women will feel attracted and stay attracted to you, both for the duration of the night and usually over the course of your entire relationship. On the other hand if you're not "congruent" then women might feel attracted to you temporarily.
But after they've giggled or flirted with you for a bit they instinctively have to "go back to their friends", and even if you wind up hooking-up they'll still usually lose attraction for you over the course of your relationship. (Obviously this never goes away entirely because some girls are just weird and you might be involved with the wrong person. But when you become "congruent" the instantaneous improvement in your results is like *night and day*)
The issue here of course, is that to really *be* - as in not just "act like" but authentically "be" - totally 100% "congruent" you've got to experience a bona fide "transformation". Like, it should be pretty obvious that no matter how good you get with "pick up techniques" and understanding "inner game" that there's still going to be at least a 1% incongruence about you (if not a *lot* more) and that's obviously going to be slaughtering your opportunities with a ton of women.
That being the case, there is definitely one thing that you need to know for sure. Your #1 top urgent priority to learning these skills with women is that you need to legitimately "transform" and become fully "congruent" to the hyper-cool, badass mofo that you obvious know you're capable of being.